My mom wants me to wear tights or pantyhose with everything:S what should I do? What/how should I say to her?

lolo im 13 to bar/bat mitzvahs i never listend to my moom or just , say mom i really dont like wearing them and im the only one on the fase of the earth thats wears panty hose.butt its kinda off a fashion statement if u wear patterns..under ur ballet outfit there cute with some leg warmeers..lol oldd school butt cute. ohh or u should wear ur pantyhose with ur leotard and an off the shoulder shirt..only if u wanna make her happy and still be fasionalblee!